Bring a large pot of lightly salted water to a boil. Add the spaghetti and cook, stirring occasionally, until tender but still firm to the bite, about 10–12 minutes. Drain and set aside.
Heat olive oil in a large saucepan over medium heat. Add minced garlic and red pepper flakes, then cook for about 1 minute until the garlic becomes fragrant. Be careful not to let it brown.
Pour in the white wine and simmer for about 2 minutes, allowing it to reduce slightly.
Add the whole peeled tomatoes with their juice, breaking them apart with a spoon as they cook. Stir in the reserved clam juice, tomato paste, oregano, salt, and black pepper.
Bring the sauce to a gentle simmer and cook for about 20 minutes, until it thickens slightly and the flavors come together.
Add the minced clams and cook for another 3–5 minutes, just until heated through.
Add the drained spaghetti directly to the sauce and toss until the noodles are evenly coated.
Stir in the fresh parsley and butter until combined and the sauce becomes smooth.
Serve immediately while warm.